Monday, March 11, 2019
Wednesday, September 21, 2016
Ingatan buatmu wahai anak-anakku...
lama tak menulis, mood menulis ku datang petang ini
terasa ingin luahkan pelbagai rasa
suka dan duka ku
ceritera kehidupanku yang biasa-biasa sahaja
namun, itu kisah hidupku
yang mana bakal menjadi saksi pengabdianku pada Ilahi
di akhirat nanti
begitu senang rasanya berpantang kali ni
oh, aku sudah punya dua org permata hati, penyejuk mataku
yang ku sayang kerana Ilahi
berharap rimbunan kasih Ilahi sentiasa menyinggahi hati2 si kecilku
Ya Allah, segala puji buatMu Rabbi
aku kini sudah bergelar ummi kepada 2 insan!
Namun, sekejap aku terfikir, apakah kenangan yg bakal ku bawakan
apabila anak2 ku sudah besar nanti
agar dapat mereka imbas kembali kebahagian usia kecil mereka
Ya Allah, ingin sekali membukukan semua peristiwa yg berlaku
setiap detik riang gembira mereka
setiap detik muram duka mereka
ingin sekali aku bawa mereka kembali merasai nikmat
usia kecil mereka, dalam kasih sayang infiniti ku
Aku tak menulis,
sedikit merakam
masih belum cukup untuk aku gambarkan kisah2 ini
harus bagaimana aku?
membuka emel untuk mereka?
atau blog baru?
atau di fb sahaja?
Ya Allah, tunjukkanku jalan yg Engkau redhai...
Wednesday, November 18, 2015
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Tuesday, November 11, 2014
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Saturday, May 24, 2014
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Moga Allah mengasihi mu sekeluarga sahabatku...
Teringin sgt nk ziarah ati n family msa ni...tp x dpt, insyaAllah mgkn ada rezki lps ni...ayah ati org yg sgt baik...moga tenang di sana...n ati jgk anak yg solehah, sebaik2 bekal utk arwah...insyaAllah...moga Allah kurniakan husnul khatimah utk kta semua..amin, alfatihah...
Thursday, April 10, 2014
My wish :)
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Thursday, February 6, 2014
8 months
Thursday, January 2, 2014
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Productive pregnancy
The hormonal imbalance coupled with mood swings, frequent urination, headaches and back pain do not make pregnancy a good experience to cherish. Well, the truth is, you can choose to make pregnancy the most memorable and productive experience of your life, or you can spend it whining and crying.
Below are few tips to make pregnancy a joyous and productive experience of life, In sha Allah.
But before I jump into the tips, I invite you to bear in mind that there are four dimensions of human beings. We have a soul, a heart, a mind and a body which corresponds to our four basic needs: spiritual needs, emotional needs, mental and physical needs. In order to enjoy a productive and peaceful pregnancy in true sense of the words, these needs must be in harmony with each other.
Lifestyle Tips
- Involve your partner in everything you do. Learn together and grow together. It’s very important for a father to play an active role in a pregnancy in order to be able to strongly bond with his child.
- Tell people what sort of cooperation you expect from them (ignoring your mood swings, making you feel good).
- Hang out with POSITIVE people who boost your morale and help you sail smoothly through your pregnancy.
- Keep yourself busy. Don’t leave your normal activities unless extremely necessary. The busier you keep yourself, the lesser you’ll have the time to fret over pregnancy gloom.
- Lead a goal oriented life. Set small targets with your husband and rejoice and celebrate when you achieve them (reading a book together, exercising etc.) Then set a new goal and repeat the cycle.
Tips to Meet Your Mental Needs
- Educate yourself. You must read books or articles, attend programs, and listen to informative lectures to educate yourself about pregnancy and how to overcome its challenges. It is similar to knowing the depth of the swimming pool before diving in. It will save you a lot of trouble.
- Talk to an experienced person. It could be your friend or your sister. Some things you would want to take from their experience. And there would be other things you would want to do differently.
- A depressed mom is equal to a depressed child. Remember depression is the recipe for destruction. Researches tell us that a mother’s depression retards the normal growth of a child and affects his/her memory and learning later in life. It also leads the child to become fearful. So as you can see, a mother’s depression has a far reaching effect. Your mental condition affects the mental condition of your child. So if you’re feeling down, make extra effort to find reasons to be happy. Be a persistent positive thinker and ask people around you to help you think positively.
- Resolve stress quickly. Stress produces a hormonal called catecholamines which affects the nervous system of the baby.
- Read out loud to your baby. It will instill reading habit in the baby later in life. You might need to buddy up with your partner in developing this habit. Let mom read to the baby sometimes, and sometimes let dad do the job.
Tips to Meet Your Emotional Needs
Prenatal researchers believe that there is some link between a mother’s thoughts and feelings and how her baby feels, and that from six months on a pre-born baby can share mother’s emotions via the hormones associated with them.
- As your baby grows, he/she is constantly getting messages from mommy. The baby responds to sounds at about 20 weeks into pregnancy.Indeed, We created man from a sperm-drop mixture that We may try him; and We made him hearing and seeing. [Qur'an: Chapter 76, Verse 2]So talk to them! (Baby, daddy is coming, let’s get ready. Mama is going to pray, now be a nice baby. Baby, mama is reading out loud for you, pay attention). They know what’s going on in the outer world.
- If you have decided a name, call them by their names. This is the time to strengthen the emotional bond.
- Hug people more often. It produces a hormone called oxytocin (also called as love hormones) that has anti-stress and pro-social effects.
- Visualize a happy family. Involve your baby in the picture. Visualize yourself, your husband and baby going out, being happy, going out to the beach, playing and having a great time together. Let your imaginations go wild. Keep visualizing until you get the feeling of being in that moment and enjoying it to the fullest extent.
- Ask for love and support from those around you. Remind them that you are pregnant and they might have to be a victim of your mood swings but gentle care and love given by them will help you get over it.
Tips to Meet Your Physical Needs
This is one aspect of pregnancy that’s given all the attention. And sometimes this can lead to a very troubled pregnancy because our focus (and the focus of those around us) is directed only towards the physical aspect of pregnancy while the three other spectrums of need are totally ignored. Since we already know much about the physical aspect, I’ll only touch upon it briefly.
- Every deficiency in food leads to some sort of trouble in the baby’s development. Have a balanced diet.
- Avoid processed food of all kinds. Get yourself on organic food.
- Sweet melon, honey, barley and grapefruit tend to aid pregnancy. Dates help a great deal in delivery, too (remember Maryam (may Allāh be pleased with her)?)
- Exercise. (Personally, I used to turn on my favorite lecture on my phone and walk for half an hour every day. Killing two birds with one stone.) Apart from that, some exercises aid in normal delivery. You must ask your doctor about it.
- Increase your physical activities. The more physically active you are, the easier would be the delivery.
- Get closer to the nature. Walk on the grass. Breathe in fresh air. Ponder over the signs of Allah (glorified and exalted be He).
Tips to Meet Your Spiritual Needs
- Never, never, never be ungrateful to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) for the pregnancy even if it was unplanned. He is the best of the planners. (Researches show that mothers who resented being pregnant had children with more emotional problems. You wouldn’t want your child to be emotionally unstable, right?)
- Prayer is the best form of meditation. It doesn’t just soothe you but also soothes your baby.
- Recite the entire Qur’an in your voice to your baby. A six-month-old fetus can move his body to the rhythm of his mother’s speech. What better gift could you give the baby than bonding him/her with the Kalam Allah even before his/her birth? Also by doing this, we can expect them to turn out righteous, pious, easy going and more religiously inclined In sha Allah. (Modern day researches have also proven that “music” has an effect on unborn children and that they are able to recognise it once they are born).
- Make istaghfaar. You wouldn’t want to have negative effects of your sins on your child. So be in the constant state of istaghfaar and make lots and lots of dua.
- Get connected with Allah (glorified and exalted be He) 24/7. He is your best friend. Keep talking to Him. Involve Him in your decisions. Make istikhara (which doctor to go to, which hospital to choose etc). Ask Him to grant you a safe delivery, a pious child and a happy life together as a family.
Have a happy pregnancy!
End.
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Moga Allah mudahkan jalan untuk memberi kebaikan...amin.
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
I miss u, abg... ;)
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Bila Allah datangkan kebaikan...harus ku sahut! Bantulah hambaMu ini Ya Allah.
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Rindu bertamu...
Ape yang dapat aku katakan setelah sebulan bergelar isteri..
Sakeenah... Tenang....
Hati ini tenang.. lebih2 lagi ketika berada di sisi suamiku...
Ya Allah..terima kasih.. terima kasih atas kurniaan ini..
Inilah nikmat dari Mu yang perlu ku syukuri sesungguhnya..
Abg..sungguh..ingin benar sentiasa di sisi abg...
Allahumma baariklana fi Rejab wa Syaaban wa ballighna Ramadhan...
Ameen...
Monday, May 27, 2013
24 Mei 2013.
Tetapi, jika ia jatuh kepada tanah subur, di sana akan tumbuh kesucian hati, keikhlasan, setia, dan budi pekerti yg tinggi."
HAMKA
Friday, May 17, 2013
Bicara umur 26tahun..
Oh, sudah besar rupenya, terlalu jauh meninggalkan zaman silam, daripada kanak2 kecil yg hanya reti berlari2, berlawan kata sana sini, masuk alam remaja mula mengenal erti kasih syg, dapat melangkah ke gerbang ilmu dan budi bertatih mengaut pengalaman hinggalah alam kerjaya mengemudi diri....
Allah, sepertinya diri ini tidak punya apa2 melainkan dengan rahmatnya yg Dia sampaikan melalui ma dan abah, keluargaku, sahabat2ku, guru2ku, adik2 ku, teman2 sekerjaku, dan sesiapa jua insan2 yg telah memberikan erti hidup pdku..
Ku ucapkan seinfiniti terima kasih buat semua..terima kasih yg x terhingga.. Mohon maaf atas hak2 x tertunai, salah dan silap..
Allah jua lah sebaik2 pemberi balasan.. Terasa diri tidak akan menjadi seperti hr ini tanpa doa2 dan kebaikan2 yg kalian telah taburkan.. Jazakumullahu khairan kathira..
Pertambahan umur itu tanda makin mendekatnya ajal.. Allah..moga kita semua sama2 terpilih mendapat husnul khatimah (pengakhiran hidup yg baik).. Ameen. 26 tahun ini mengemudi diri, ape yg telah ku berikan utk agamaku? T.T
http://drmaza.com/home/?p=910
P/s: jemput ye dtg kenduri..25hb ni, insyaAllah..
Monday, April 29, 2013
Ya Allah, menangkan pakatan rakyat utk pilihanraya kali ini, amin.
Biar nanti, generasi pewaris negaraku Malaysia adalah insan-insan yg bermaruah tinggi berbudi pekerti luhur menjulang peribadi seorang muslim yg unggul..
Amin.
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Ini kalilah.. InsyaAllah..
Teman: knape pas kna bergabung dgn dap? Kalu pas shj, mesti aku sokong 100% la. skrg, aku sokong pas je..Tapi bila pas gabung dgn dap, nnt dap amik alih sume kuasa cm ne?
Aku: dlu pas berdiri sorg, tp masa tu xdpt byk sokongan. N msa pilihanraya lps pas gabung dgn pkr n dap, nmpk menjadi..jadi apa slhnya terus bergabung..mcm dlm bn pn ada umno mca mic..lbh krg samala dgn pakatan rakyat skrg. Ye la, kalu nk ubah, mana blh drastik..ssh org nk terima.. Tp mmg la, bg aku, gabung dgn dap ni amik risiko jgk, dia kafir, mana blh caye, tp aku percaya pd pimpinan pas, mesti diorg sume aware jgk pasal ni..tu je yg ku pegang..
Teman: kalu pakatan menang..sape jd pm?
Aku: rasenya anwar, sbb dia ketua pembangkang..
Teman: bkn Tgna eh?
Aku: rasenya tak
Teman: bkn ke hr tu anwar ada kaitan dgn israel ke?
Aku: hm, isu tu..ntah la..ada slh phm kot..
Teman: kawasan aku skrg ni pembangkang tp aku dgr tanah2 sume hbs dpt ke kaum kerabat dia?
Aku: hm, dgr jgk pasal ni msa kt trg dlu, masa pas perintah, org kta byk tanah bg kat sek sek dia..hm, tp bn pn same jgk, byk lg kes diorg amik duit rakyat..kn..
Aku: bukan ape, aku cuma nk islam, skrg ni bn bkn mcm tu, byk sgt korup, ape yg aku mahu nk tgk islam kt malaysia, skrg ni yg nmpk ke arah tu adalah pas..kalu bn berubah bwk islam mgkn aku jgk sokong bn kekal..tp buat masa skrg ni x jd mcm tu la, mgkn kalu diorg btl2 nk berubah lps kalah nnt..so skrg tugas kta sokong apa yg lbh dekat utk islam la...
Teman: (diam dan berfikir..)
Ya Allah, berilah kemenangan utk pakatan rakyat..kalah kan barisan nasionsl ya Allah..untuk pilihanraya kali ini, menangkan lah pakatan rakyat ya Allah..ameen3..








